Having sex with someone new can be a potentially stressful situation.
“How do I measure up with their other partners?”
“What do they think of my body?”
“Am I pleasing them?”
Now, imagine you’re in bed with a professional SEX COACH whose job is to teach people how to enjoy the most fulfilling sex and pleasure possible.
That is A LOT of pressure. For you…and them.
On this episode I speak with Wendy Perkins, a trauma-informed orgasm, and neuro-pleasure coach. An author and sought-after expert who’s been featured in BuzzFeed News, Wendy hacked her own ADHD, and now helps people discover unique pathways to take ownership of their pleasure.
Oh yeah… she’s also single and dating.
As you could imagine, when potential sex partners find out she’s an orgasm and pleasure coach…well, the reactions she gets are pretty surprising.
Wendy reveals how male potential sex partners typically fall into one of three categories when they learn about her job. Female potential sex partners have a completely different reaction. Plus, there are the folks who flat-out expect a free sex masterclass every time she gets in bed with them.
Yeah not so much.
She also shares pro tips on how to “guide” a partner in bed without making it seem like a lesson, and the best thing to say to get out of a night of terrible sex.
There’s a lot to be gained from this fun conversation.
Wendy Perkins can be reached for private coaching and more at Owning Your O and can be found online @owningyouro.
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